FWIW, Corrie has done an admirable job of attempting to draw things out of CeMar. She is one of SEVERAL people who have been attempting, or attempted to help him over the last few YEARS...but his responses/questions never waver. He almost never gives us any real insight to CeMar. It would certainly be nice if he would, it would be a nice change of pace from his constant negativity...but he won't, that's his choice.
the choice he continually makes to not open up however makes it impossible for anyone on this BB to really help him, and it makes me believe HE doesn't think there is anything at all wrong with him, nothing he can do, that this is all out of his control....that it's all his W's doing/fault, and that she behaves the way she does on purpose. I still cannot escape the feeling, he's never communicated his frustrations/complaints to his wife...I believe she's clueless about all of this, and probably has her own plethora of complaints/frustrations about him.
I know he is very frustrated with his situation, but he steadfastly refuses (by his his lack of response and actions) to be part of the solution. This is my observation of him since I joined this BB and begain interacting with him almost three years ago.
I wish him the best (really I do), but I don't see anything changing in his situation until he recognizes his role in the issues he's complaining about...and begins making changes in himself, for three years...he's refused to do that.
