Well H didn't show up at the football at all. Pretty much everyone was as friendly as they used to be. The one guy who I was particularly concerned about did say hi to me, but wasn't nearly as upbeat and talkative with me as he used to be.

I overheard part of a conversation one guy was having on his phone, "No, he's not here," *pause while the person on the other end asked why*, "Because his wife" and then I tuned out.

I polished my wedding and engagement rings before I went to the game so they were bright and shiny and sparkling. I wanted to make sure no one could miss the fact that they're still on my finger.

I've come up with another possibility for who OW might be. Just came to me the other day out of the blue. Can't say for sure if it's her, because I can't say for sure that this person's name is Amy, (though I think it might be), but if I'm right, then she's someone who got divorced several years back right after she had a baby, (as in, she and her H separated when the kid was still practically a newborn), and she's the daughter of one of MIL's good friends. Ugh! That's the last thing I need, H shacking up with someone who is not only pro-D, but also the daughter of one of MIL's friends. So here's hopin' I'm wrong, not that there's any way I can find out either way.


Me:30
H:30
Together:10yr
H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv.
No Kids
OW bomb:Jan19'07
My thread: He filed.