There is one thing I don't do and that is criticize. Because I do honestly appreciate the help. But then sometimes I get angry at the word help as I just used because this is his house to. But we just have different values. I was brought up in a very organized and clean home. So for me it's like I can't rest if the house is a mess. Although I am getting better.LOL
He was also raised in a home where his mom worked full time and did all the house stuff. His dad did do things like yard work, vehicle repairs, and was always putting gas in her car. I don't think she ever fueled her car. So he did dome nice things. But cooking or cleaning was never done.
An example of something I got mad about last week was this... Once again I was stretched to the limit trying to get everything done that week. On this one particular day I had a paper to write. A chapter to study. I had to go into work. Had a parent teacher conference to attend. Then had to pick my son up from school after the conference. My husband had the nerve to get angry at me and ask me if I was ever going to get the oil changed in the car and that it was 500 miles over due. Man I blew a gasket.
