Hey VC,

No he didn't do that when we were together. We made decisions jointly and I actually remember us sitting down and "mapping out" options when we were both job hunting, figuring out what area was best for each and putting the other first for the most part. Felt good. My aunt and 2 friends mentioned back then, how much they admired our R, "strong M", "two careers with kids" but making it, etc. So, yes this is a change. How is your sitch? I can't find your post after the last one locked.

And Happy Again, no I don't "get it". If I did, I wouldn't be posting here. I want to do the morally right thing and it is not obvious to me, and I am not stupid. Some of my questions are obviously rhetorical and philisophical, and as for "whining", I think this is the place we choose to vent, and "to journal"--which is exactly how I described my words....don't read my thread if it bothers you.
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Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 03/17/07 02:32 AM.
M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change