Sorry...I will wait till you return...I only hope this doesn't explode because this will set you back farther then where you were....
I really hope you can hold it together...I don't think you should be asking what to do IF he makes advances...I think you should be thinking if you can even handle that KNOWING when you come home he isn't going to be staying with you....
I think I would tend to just say....I am here as your friend and to visit with your parents...now lets get some sleep!
But then you do to us like you do to him...ask a million questions....reword them and ask them again...and then do what you want....I think you knew all along that you were going to try and force your way on this trip to parents...and I also believe that you have to admit to yourself that it is more then wanting to see their house or them...you are trying to control your husband...and he is bowing in.....and I will stop there...
So I hope it works out for you..but just know, like H...we can't keep bailing water out of ship with too many holes..
I am really really sorry I can't be more encouraging or positive then this....there are just too many red flags going up right now....take care!
