Could not have said it any better. I am seriously thinking of sitting down with a C and trying to figure out how to make this work. Like yourself, I find the wheels a spinning and not a whole lot happening. I feel that it's a matter of she not really committed to making things work out, but she doesn't want to look like the "bad guy", so she's waiting for me to throw in the towel and do it for her. She really doesn't want to hurt the kids, or look bad to them (or her parents & relatives). But there has to be a shift here soon. Not sure where this is going next.