Just this morning, in the garage, I gave her a hug, looked her straight in the eye and said "you can't possibly resist my charm forever, I'm too beautiful!"
I'm getting it Frank. That's the way I was in our early M. I was much more of a man, teaser, sexual tensionist, than I am now. It'll be a challenge, she's got her defenses up pretty high. But I'm gonna kick her ass! She does'nt live with a morphadite anymore!
Regarding the nice guy stuff. I think maybe the pedulum swung a little too far. See, I was a jerk to her for a long time. So I had to show her what a kind heart I really have buried underneath all the crap. Now pulling back away, creating the tension you describe, will make the perfect recipe. I'll be a man, a HE MAN, but she'll still marvel at what a huge heart I have. It's perfect.
She's toast!
Ali, I can't wait to hear your story when you H gets home. He's not going to know what hit him. Go tiger!
Love,
COG
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