False alarm She doesn't want option 2 right now, and I don't think option 3 is a serious one either. She came back home, she is filled with anger. The opposite of love is indifference. Let her find her way back to you. There may be some detours, but I believe she loves you and only she can figure out how to resolve her inner conflicts between loving you and her anger for you. The more you interfere, the more you cloud her thought process. Be caring, listen to her with full attention, (open body laguaguge, no anger) and validate her feelings when she wants to interact, otherwise give her space and let go of your fear of her leaving. It will take time and lots of hard days, but each day you do it you will grow and move forward ever so slightly. In time those days will add up to some real changes and you will feel more confident. You can stand alone, build a new life and be happy without her if you have too. Take care Mark, 4
