do you even realize that all of your posts sound the same. My H the over achieving doctor took off to Alaska and I dont want to go even though i love him and he loves me and we want our marriage to work.but he went ahead and made a new life for himself and i will be damned if I should just suck it all up and take a chance that maybe it might work.i mean he left me and our kids and now i have a life of my own and why the hell should I give it all up for him when he didnt give a rats ass when he took off. somebody please make a decision for me because I dont know what the hell I am doing anymore. i like it in CA and i have 1000 reasons why i shouldnt go and i keep going over and over the same BS every single day.
For crying out loud woman you have already made the decision, dont you get it????
