Gosh, if I were in that sitch I'd probably go to the bar, join my husband (and OW!!!), walk up to him and give him a looooong drawn out hug and kiss in front of her and show her who's got the winning ticket! Hee hee!!!!
By the way, my family members aren't too pleased I'm back with my husband either. My mom thinks I'm crazy, and I'm too afraid to even tell my dad. He thinks I'm still getting a divorce!!!! Regardless of what other people think, you really do need to do what's best for your children and your self. That's the bottom line.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
