Hi, sorry you got such bad news. DB says stop the snooping and you were snooping. Helps nothing unless you want ammunition for a divorce. Figure out what you want and then read up on this. Maybe the marriage builders say to expose, but the DB does not. Again, do you want to save the M or not? Shaming her into coming back will NOT work in the long run, even if it does in the short run. "Keep the road home paved and smooth. " Best DB advice I got was that. Otherwise she may not be able to come back, in her mind, if she thinks she has to eat crow for years and or that you won't ever forgive her.
How can exposing this help anything? Just wondering. Again, sorry you are here, but it is the right place for you to vent. Keep on keeping on. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
