I think you will probably get responses on both sides. I know if you went to the marriagebuilders site they would tell you to expose, expose, expose.
Personally I didn't and wouldn't. The way I see it is that if you confront her she'll either lie and say she never had an A or if she does admit to the A it'll probably just push her further toward OM.
As you probably know A have there way of running the course. If you want to wait for it to finish then I would sit back, GAL and take care of yourself. If not then I understand too. Your in control now. You do what you feel is right for you.
