I talked to my father in-law. He said pretty much what I expected. He said you have to take care of yourself and your son. He recommended that I tell the wife that based on her behavior and unwillingness to forgive that we move forward with her first option (leave and give me custody).
He said I have already put up with too much. Not a very positive talk, but he calls it like he sees it. Then I called my oldest sister and the first words out of her mouth were when are you going to get a divorce?
