2940,

Look at the trip as a chance to DB, show your 180 & what a great person you are!

Second, IF you feel like ML, go for it. I did, it is has helped me get to where we are today. My only problem now is getting OW out of the picture & WAH-MLCer to "grow-up."

BUT this all takes time, and more time, time & time.

This journey has many bumps, try not to create any of them yourself. Did I mention how much time it takes?

- Don't talk about R/M
- Keep mouth shut when in doubt
- Watch what you drink - can loosen lips
- When feeling angry, walk away. Anger is enemy #1

Will send you positive thoughts!

Have fun!


MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08