Look at the trip as a chance to DB, show your 180 & what a great person you are!
Second, IF you feel like ML, go for it. I did, it is has helped me get to where we are today. My only problem now is getting OW out of the picture & WAH-MLCer to "grow-up."
BUT this all takes time, and more time, time & time.
This journey has many bumps, try not to create any of them yourself. Did I mention how much time it takes?
- Don't talk about R/M - Keep mouth shut when in doubt - Watch what you drink - can loosen lips - When feeling angry, walk away. Anger is enemy #1
Will send you positive thoughts!
Have fun!
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08