Ok - a question for all you piecers out there that are a little more advanced (not mentally) than I am ....

I know I have to build the trust back up and that is going to be a long haul but I am also very insecure (obviously built into the trust issue) and I don't know how to get it across to my H without sounding like I am hanging on him

What is reasonable to ask for? I know he is still very private (more than secretive) with his cell and visa bill - which worries me. Is it unreasonable to say if we are going to move forward in this (and he thinks I should be over it by now) than I need him to be more open and expose himself (not literally) to what he is doing? Or is that going too far over the line

I don't want to set him off but on the other hand, I don't want to walk on egg shells for the rest of my life either - always wondering what if ....

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)