LN,

These thoughts & feelings you are having are NORMAL, and you are NOT alone....

It can be so much easier to wallow in the self-pity & not make the attempt to climb out of the dispare. Like you, I am worried about being a single parent, broke & watching S go on w/OP & leave a fantastic family behind.

Yes, I am too trying understand my own feelings w/the same questions you are having about S staying or going.

We must focus on us & our children, which is easier to write than do. :-)

Sending you "Atta boys" & PMA


MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08