It only took ONE time when H put OW ahead of the kids when he tool her to a ritzy hotel last summer.
The kids were at summer camp and H told them to call him when they got back on a Saturday, and that he would pick them up on Sunday and take them to lunch, etc.
He was not answering his phone, stood them up, etc.
Then I got a survey in the mail asking if the king size bed at X hotel was comfortable, etc.
I ripped him one for doing this to his kids. I think he was shocked that I knew so much about that weekend right down to the cost of food and the cost for the room, etc.
He never did that again.
I think last summer was the height of his "space cadet" days.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
