LG, Even though you and your W have had a strong spiritual connection, there is still so much physical temptation here in the earthly world. I am wondering if you have any knowledge of what the OM is like; you might then get clues as to what she feels is missing in your relationship with her.
I personally don't feel the R weekend is a good idea right now; it's too much " togetherness" when one person is out the door and is in the early stages of infatuation. She may end up feeling trapped.
This is the time to get information and work on you. Keep the opporunities for reconnection with her brief but enjoyable. The guys here have lots of knowledge on defining attractive, manly behavior that will work in your favor. It's good you are working with a DB coach as well.
