He is leaving to be alone to THINK - now what?

[Heartbroken]

Doe,

You are so right - I never did consider the timeline. I know for a fact I would have been like you too. It was only two weeks with him at the apt. seeing her on weekends (when he did not have the kids) and I was already having issues. I would have gone dark in a hurry had he not told her buh bye as fast as he did. H said he did not want to hurt her - but what he failed to realize how much I was hurting each time he was with her (I was good at the DB thing - cool and GAL all the time - refused to show him my pain!)...