There is a really wwwwiiiiddddeeeee range. Ive been used and cast aside in less then 3 minutes. That memory still makes me laugh and shake my head.
“Women want to talk first, connect first, then have sex,”
I hope you dont really believe that. They may impose 'rules' on themself, or on you, for appearances or use it to rationalize their lack of desire, but I really hope you dont seriously believe that. Hopefully thats what the wink was for.