Okay...so you are going - well, we'll take it from that point going forward...
When you visit his parents, just be yourself...don't worry about any of this unpleasantness.
1. Enjoy yourself 2. Don't be too "chatty" it will be over-compensating 3. Bring the parents a gift 4. If you and hubby stay in the same room at night...let him make any advances...but if he doesn't - don't be upset 5. Be pleasant, but let hubby run the show - it's his parents 6. DO NOT TELL THEM ABOUT THE STATE YOUR MARRIAGE IS IN 7. If they see you both "strained"...blame it on the work load 8. Don't hang all over hubby...don't follow him around like a puppy 9. Relax 10. Have fun
Don't stress or expect this to cure your marriage problems...
Talk with you next week...Have fun!!! Have a safe flight...