Maybe your coach is having second thoughts? Maybe she should, especially in light of the reaction your wife gave you:
Last night at our MC, when I expressed my desire to be able to see her at least once a week in the upcoming months of separation, she was very amenable. I said that I hoped we could remain close friends during the separation, and she instantly kissed me and gave me a very tight hug that lasted longer than I expected. She told me that was her hope too.
Actually, Cobra,
I think that my wife is hoping that she can divorce me and yet not lose the friendship with me. When I expressed what I did, she might have felt a lot of guilt lifted off her shoulders.
But what do I know? I am just a wobbly-legged land lubber, who has been set out on a course in rough seas that I've never navigated 'afore.
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08