I have been together with my husband for 15 years. 13 years married. I guess you can say it kind of started with a lot of drama going on. I was going through a divorce that my ex had strung on forever through the courts. My husband then my boyfriend was like a rock to me. He helped me out so much and was a great source of support. He had been married before where his ex had cheated on him and followed his every move. He was out of that relationship/marriage at least 3 years I think before metting me. In the beginning we could talk about anything. The sex was very very hot. Extremely passionate and he taught me things I never knew. (lol) We had been engaged and I got pregnant 1 month before our wedding date. He was so happy about this pregnancy. We had child number 2 a couple years later into the marriage. That is when the SSM began. It was shortly after our son was born.