I'm glad it went OK when you asked him about the laptop and also that you are feeling a little less paranoid. I think it all just takes a lot of time. I am now 100% sure we are back together for good and H acts like he's totally back in love and says he's not going anywhere but I still have panic attacks if we disagree or sometimes just because he's going to work. I feel exactly like you - wishing I could trust him not to break my heart again. I think I'm getting a little better each day. Why do you say your H is happy because he has family life and bachelors life??? Is he still going out a lot???
My H is still not wearing his ring so I think this must take a long time.....as for moving back into your room he might be thinking you don't want him to yet or would feel uncomfortable about it so if it were me I'd broach the subject. Does he talk about how things are going at all?? If he does and he says things are going well and he's happy I would just say "do you think that we will sleep in the same room together eventually?" or "I would love for us to end up back together properly sharing the same room eventually" something that doesn't sound like you're demanding it right now - the eventually takes the edge off and lets him still feel in control I think. Course this is just my opinion again but that is how I went about it with my H.
We have taken things very slowly and I feel we are now almost there. Good luck with whatever you decide to do again.
Thank you for asking how I'm doing. Everything is going really well. Just waiting for the intimacy issue to be resolved but progress is being made slowly but surely and I'm feeling a lot happier and a bit more secure.
