New to Piecing II

[COG]

WCW,

how does a country/farm boy end up in CA with a boat in his driveway

I know everyone thinks only about Hollywood when they think about California. But let me tell ya something, there's a LOT of country in California, I'm born and raised here. Everybody here has a boat!

First off, any alpha female can tell you that a boat works better in the water!

Well just when I thought I'd tried everything! Water hugh? That just might work!

For me, I got to the point that I felt every time H would touch me, or hug me, it was going to end in sex.

There's alot women that would really love THAT scenario to happen, unfortunately, not mine and obviously not you. But that's OK, and I've learned how to love unconditionally, and not expect every touch to lead there. It's actually very nice.

But I understand how your W may be relaxing knowing the 'pressure is off' and it's safe to just touch, nothing more. Good observation on your part.

OK, but you can't just leave me hanging here country girl. I've become VERY observant, AND patient. But will I have to wait forever? What's YOUR trigger? What is it that turns YOU on? Do YOU initiate sex? Do YOU want to be in charge of the frequency? Should your H just continue gently waiting, or wait awhile then pursue? Should he gently touch you and you give him a secret signal if you want to go further? If he does'nt get the signal he stops?

I'm not being nosy, just looking for some new direction, input, and advice.

Thanks,

COG