I'm absolutely convinced that within the first five minutes to one hour that you meet someone, you will be exposed to everything that's really important about them, unconsciously and subliminally.
I "knew" that my H wasn't the guy for me the first time I went over to his parent's house where he was living while we were dating and I saw how his mother decorated the house. It was like I knew I couldn't be compatible with a man whose mother had taste so different to mine. Unfortunately, that was also the night I got knocked up.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
