Starting to really piece it back together

[Heartbroken]

Cat

In my case I know what my issues were - the problem is H NEVER even told me he was unhappy - I was truly blind sided. I used to be so arrogant stating how in love we were and I truly believed this. I thanked God every night for my husband and kids - in that order. Somewhere he lost something and did not come to me when he started EA with Ow - he kept telling himself he could fix it but he never could. It's very hard for a marriage partner to work at problems she did not know existed....