I have been offline a few days and am just catching up now.
I am so sorry. What a putz!!!
Take care of yourself and visualize where and who you will be in the future with that new man that will know how to be present in a relationship and want to risk and put his heart/energy into it.
DO NOT doubt yourself. I know it is so hard not to, but really this has NOTHING to do with you and everything to do with his fears and general lack... he is a shell of a man right now and you cant help him with that.
huge hug!
brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05