Have just caught part of your thread and wanted to let you know that you are not alone. Where you are 4months, I am past the 7month & my WAH-MLCer is still involved w/OW, while he has been back at the house "sort of."
At present, after a confrontation Tues., I have gone dark on WAH-MLCer. Like you, I am afraid the distance will push him to OW, but know it has to be done for our sanity.
When do we draw the line in the sand & say enough? Honestly don't know. Many friends are concerned that I am being a doormat & it's hard to explain DBing to them, about letting OW make the mistakes & we keep the door open for reconciliation.
How do we continue while turning the blind eye, especially when our "radar" goes off & we know the H is lieing about where he is, or going & with, etc.?
You are NOT alone. I am WITH you.
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
