Cog, how does a country/farm boy end up in CA with a boat in his driveway to work on and you don't know what you're doing? That's a picture I chuckled about since I read it last night. First off, any alpha female can tell you that a boat works better in the water! ;\)

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I've noticed since last week, and into this week, she's been doubling up on physical touch, kisses and hugs. I think she knows she's safe, she know's I'm not available until after lent, and I sense a little relaxation. Plus I think it's becoming easier for her, she feels more in control. The trend is good.
For me, I got to the point that I felt every time H would touch me, or hug me, it was going to end in sex. He could sense something wrong when he touched me, and then I mistakenly thought I should be honest with him and tell him my feelings and we would work thru it. Bad idea. But I understand how your W may be relaxing knowing the 'pressure is off' and it's safe to just touch, nothing more. Good observation on your part.

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