He is leaving to be alone to THINK - now what?

[Heartbroken]

My h was/is the opposite - if I pushed him out completely he may have gone to the Ow entirely. H loved how low stress and caring I was when we talked - we still did family meals and he felt the old bantering fun times return. Ow was putting to much pressure on him again and I vowed to make myself the only positive light in his life for the moment. You have to decide what is best for you and how your H will react. I agree with the no sex until the 3rd person is gone though - that is totally having his cake and eating it too!