Thanks yes.

I think I've spent too long on this board today. I've been reading about NC vs. contact and I must admit it's got me wondering. I have had no contact at all this week and had been feeling stronger. But today,after reading Happy again's posts I've started to wonder whether I feel strong enough to resume contact. A few weeks ago W asked if I wanted to go for a coffee and I said I'd think about it, because I really didn't feel strong enough. Do I now? On Sunday, I certainly didn't which is why I took the NC decision. Plus she's still with OM.

I'm really getting confused now!..