Hi IP Idid what you said about the laptop, i kept it very casual and said that i didn't think laptops were allowed on site at work. He said that policies had changed and things were not as strict anymore - which i do believe. at the moment i don't feel quite as paranoid, but this changes from one day to the next. I just really wish i could trust him again like i used to. He has been so lovely to me so i should be over the moon but i keep having these silly nagging doubts that it's only because he's happy because he's having the best of both worlds - a family life and a bachelors life.
I would love him to wear his wedding ring again and to move back into our bedroom but i dont know whether i should talk to him about it or wait until he feels ready to bring the subject up. Any advice out there?