Starting to really piece it back together

[cat03]

meant to reply yesterday, but yes, you did the right thing, he should get tested, I insisted my H do it. He dragged it, complained, but finally did it. They think the ow was faultless and "she" couldnt' have anything, that's how stupid they were back then.

You were right by not approaching ow, dont' ever talk to her, she needs to wither and die in your mind, the less you think of her the better you'll hear. And if H keeps saying stuff just simply say "It hurts me to hear about her, I appreciate you dont' mention her".

Good luck!