Starting to really piece it back together

[ourcrisis]

again, congrats. Doesn't it hurt so much when h defends ow? It sucks everytime mine does that. And he loves to talk to me about everything. I am his support. Sometimes I just want him to shut up.
The getting tested part is tricky, but also important. Does he know that you get tested last time? This is just one suggestion that I think of, there are probably others. May be you can tell him you got lots of info last time you got tested that you really do not feel safe and cannot enjoy sex so much? So you will use a condom for now. He can take his time to decide when/if he wants to get tested. This may not look so much like pointing a finger at him, but you know, MEN. He will probably dash off to the doctor the next day so he can ditch that condom.