Hi Mark. Hope you are feeling better. Part of our problem is that we are so intertwined with our Ws that unraveling it all seems unnatural. But as rob1231 has posted on my thread, we need to be two healthy independent individuals for a happy M. It is too bad we couldn't sit down and have a couple of beers together and shoot some pool or something. Detaching is the only way to set both of you free. You can do it Mark. One day at a time. Take care my friend, 4