I saw your post on my sitch. thanks. My h also sugar coat his seeing ow. Nowadays I know he is seeing her sometimes at lunch (or even breakfast). But hardly any at dinner/night. My personal opinion is just prepare yourself in case your h cannot cut of contact totally and go back and forth for a while. It is tough on the kids. I am in the same way in that h needs to find an excuse for now to tell the kids why he is not home for a while. He travels for work so we can think of something there. Your comment on 9 months not moving truly strikes me. Sometimes I think how much I could have accomplished if I were not in this limbo. But then i did read tons of books so that ought to count as something.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
