Huband just moved in with OW

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You are on the right track, I think! I haven't been thru this all yet, but what you are saying about not wanting him to come home until he wants to work on your M... I think that is right. But yet again I am not sure b/c my H hasn't left. so I will support you in anything you do and will be here for you!

I am glad and relieve that he was never Physically abusive... I would find a way to protect you. You seem so strong so I didn't believe that was the case... but you never know... Thanks for letting me know this.

Thanks... that makes sense... keep him "safe"... I know... I want our home to be a happy place... There isn't ever a whole lot of fighting here... which should help matters... And also if he does leave and wants to come back, he has to know he left on his terms, not me kicking him out, and that he can come back on MY or should I say "our" terms... b/c i do feel if he ever left then it would be something that we would have to set ground rules before he could return...

Well H just got home with the kids... have to Run.

Have a great night.. Hope you had a Good night!!!!