Yes!...I am glad you have found someone to work with you and so soon....
I am having to take some of my own advice again...H starts withdrawing from me and I feel panic...so instead of feeling like I have to be pleasing him all the time I am going to join a Jazzercise class with my daughters!!!
It does get easier...but it is still not a piece of cake....had a cry today because H told me that he does still avoid spending time with me...he doesn't want to deal with my emotions...so I guess that means I have to deal with them and leave him out of it....
Live and learn...seems to be my medicine these days..
Take care and let us know how the visit goes...I am sure she will give you some "homework" or goals to work on...please let us know so that we can encourage you along...