HD However, I am the chief/best/master dishwasher loader in the house. No one does it to my satisfaction. The difference is, I don't tell them they did it wrong (whether it's the kids or my wife), I just re-do it. I have told the kids the basic principles I try to follow: dirty side toward center of dishwasher, don't put all silverware of one type in one section of a basket (they NEST!). Same here HD ^5.
If I re-arrange some things, BB doesn’t like it so I am careful what I change once it is in the dishwasher.
The way I look at it, it isn’t worth the put-down feelings BB gets when I put the dirty dishes why “I” think they should be, based on the loading instruction pictures that came with the dishwasher.
BB unloads the DW and if something is dirty (rarely) she puts the item back for re-washing.
Kids? call them back to do it right or close if that gets the dishes clean. You don't have to DIY all of the time.
