Well, I am not a rescuer...I am the person who keeps a calm head in a crisis (well, used to, that is!)

I was the one going on trips abroad and stuff...I think he was attracted to that but also, I was vulnerable and he could see that side too...Now I am just the devil.

However, I think I have grown a lot and I am not waiting for him...but he insists on handling everything...can't let go, I guess.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller