nah i didnt need to be rescued.....actually the independent feisty traits I displayed attracted my H to me so many years ago. He always didnt know how to deal with someone like that.....I was NOT like his mother who waited on his dad hand and foot.....i mean ladies....laid his clothes out everynite for the next day. But he was attracted to me none the less.

Rescuer complex yeah cos he always wanted to be in law enforcemnt....he dad made him come back to the family business.....one of those mlc pre-cursors....and his dad was alway demeaning to him...and my h spent his whole life trying to please dad.....i saw first hand some of the things he dad said and did. While his mom loved him she favored the younger sister.

so fast forward to his dad dying in 2000 and loosinthe family business belly up in 2003...yup it all started going downhill from there.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest