nah i didnt need to be rescued.....actually the independent feisty traits I displayed attracted my H to me so many years ago. He always didnt know how to deal with someone like that.....I was NOT like his mother who waited on his dad hand and foot.....i mean ladies....laid his clothes out everynite for the next day. But he was attracted to me none the less.
Rescuer complex yeah cos he always wanted to be in law enforcemnt....he dad made him come back to the family business.....one of those mlc pre-cursors....and his dad was alway demeaning to him...and my h spent his whole life trying to please dad.....i saw first hand some of the things he dad said and did. While his mom loved him she favored the younger sister.
so fast forward to his dad dying in 2000 and loosinthe family business belly up in 2003...yup it all started going downhill from there.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Well, I am not a rescuer...I am the person who keeps a calm head in a crisis (well, used to, that is!)
I was the one going on trips abroad and stuff...I think he was attracted to that but also, I was vulnerable and he could see that side too...Now I am just the devil.
However, I think I have grown a lot and I am not waiting for him...but he insists on handling everything...can't let go, I guess.
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Gotta go finishing packing for trip...of course I will overpack, but since it's my first time to the city...
Weird things are happening to the tile floor and had to call the Latin Luvah...as I have no idea what it is...called my dad, he doesn't know either...it has been raining a lot here after a drought so I don't know if it has to do with that...we leveled our foundation a couple of years after we moved in...so I don't know if it could've shifted again.
LL seems to be very concerned about it...but our house is old and so maybe that has something to do with it. LL wants to stop by the house and take a look at it...maybe he wants to kiss me goodbye too!!! Heh-heh. I can only hope!
Wow, another trip w/o the Luvah...we had planned to go to NYC in Dec '05 but he was with the whore. ANother adventure for Valentine withour her PoohBear....sniff.....that is not how I wanted it to be....
But I get to see my GERLZ!!!!!! YIPEEEEEE!!!
♪ We are family I got all my sisters with me We are family Get up ev'rybody and sing
Ev'ryone can see we're together As we walk on by (FLY!) and we fly just like birds of a feather I won't tell no lie (ALL!) all of the people around us they say Can they be that close Just let me state for the record We're giving love in a family dose
(CHORUS x2)
Living life is fun and we've just begun To get our share of the world's delights (HIGH!) high hopes we have for the future And our goal's in sight (WE!) no we don't get depressed Here's what we call our golden rule Have faith in you and the things you do You won't go wrong This is our family Jewel♪;
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Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Oh guys I hope you have a WONDERFUL time together !!!! Go out and ENJOY !!!!!! I will be thinking of you all !!! Really have a GREAT TIME TOGETHER !!!!!
Lots of love and kisses
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Well vali I leave for a fun filled week in Fl the 23rd!...not what I wanted either.....not to dwell...but has has been to LV and NYC with the child whore.....kinda hurts.....but I get over things faster than I used tho the LV trip for 6 days really stung....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
