Don't have much time to write - am getting ready for my hair appointment. But wanted to let you know that I found a local therapist this morning who is familiar with and practices Michele's work, as well as John Gottman and some others. She has been in practice for 30 years. I found her on the internet last night with a Google search and called and left a message for her this morning, and she called me back in about 5 minutes - very impressed.
She does both individual and marital therapy and recommended we start with the individual therapy first and still discuss H and daily interactions with him, etc. I am going to meet with her weekly and give it a month or so to see if it seems to be a good fit.
So, my first session is tomorrow morning at 11am!
I know you all want me to get in therapy as soon as possible, so I just wanted to let you know...
I'll post more later about my epiphany last night, but let's just say that I am changed forever thanks to all of you and Virginia's wrapup...
But wanted to let you know that I found a local therapist this morning who is familiar with and practices Michele's work, as well as John Gottman and some others. She has been in practice for 30 years. I found her on the internet last night with a Google search and called and left a message for her this morning, and she called me back in about 5 minutes - very impressed. 
