Starting to really piece it back together

[Heartbroken]

Please see my sitch in the links below...

Dealing with the DB books since late Aug, was out here (DB World)reading for months and finally posted for the first time in Feb.

I have grown personally due to DB and have learned a lot from the group - I hope to get as much help here too!!

Well I am torn between this group and the infidelity group. I really believe we are moving into piecing. H said buh bye to Ow this past Sunday and she has "only" txt msg once and called once but he told me about them immediately (he has a lying issue to get over with). Last night he told his Mom he was done with her too. Told her we may need to go to a C - this is good.

He is staying at the apt and limiting contact with me so he can be sure is over her but the signs look good. We are still having family dinners/events so we still see each other 4 or 5 nights anyways...hard not to with 2 kids right!

I know he's not there yet to talk serious R stuff yet - saw that on Monday after my C session. Still defends her but not as strongly. My main issue now is we are getting physical and I want to-- but he did not use protection with Ow and I think he should go and get tested. I was tested in Jan. when I found out about the Ow and it all came back okay (for now right) - I am scared to press this issue with him right now not sure how he will react..

Is it too soon to ask for this - do I just go get condoms until he does get tested? I am fairly certain that ML will be in the near future...I hate this feeling of walking on eggshells how long until he can really talk R stuff???? Silly question since everyone sitch is so diff.

Thanks for your help and I am thrilled to have moved into piecing - I hope for real or my Heartbroken tag will never get changed!

Thanks!
HB