oh Jag!!! so nice to hear from you! I was wondering how things went!!!
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gs I noticed was that everytime I read someone elses post I was reminded of the pain my W caused me
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yes and yes, I too took a break and made it a point to not come here more than 1x per day, and it did work, it did wake up some old pains and my wouldn't couldnt' heal properly. I do come now and then to give some new folks some advice, it's sad to see so many people here hurting. But yes, taking a break does give you a chance to heal.

I'm so happy that you W has changed, I and I just love the inscription on the rings!!!
My M has changed for the better too, much much better than what it was 7mnts ago. My H is still wary of his feelings and afraid to be hurt, but he is giving the best he can and our M has taken a 180d from what it was.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.