mrs cac, I know hd can defend himself... but I don't think you have as complete a picture of their sitch as some of us who have been around here almost three years.
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This is (a big reason) why MsHairdog calls Hairdog to complain about the towels. She knows she needs him to pitch in, but she is ultimately responsible for the condition of her house.
He doesn't just pitch in-- my understanding is that he does the bulk of the housework. There are deeper issues at work here. Your point is true, but you also have to throw in mrs hd's type 1 perfectionism and a whole lot of other cr@p, too.