I decided to go the route of having my brother txt me if they won the semi-final, so that then I'd just go and watch the grand final if they made it.
Around about the time the game was meant to be starting I just thought, "God, if it'd be a good thing for me to go along and have H see me, then fix it so they win the game. If I shouldn't go, then make 'em lose." And they lost. Dunno if there was actually any divine intervention involved, but as it turned out, I guess I just wasn't meant to go.
Me:30 H:30 Together:10yr H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv. No Kids OW bomb:Jan19'07 My thread: He filed.