OK, now I remember my pen potrait. I wasn't familiar with that term.
Maybe I am a control freak. I'm discovering things about myself, maybe that will be one of them. Maybe we're all (including our spouses) control freaks, or at least freaks.
My friend also felt better when he started NC. I fear he closed the door to tightly, but he definately feels better for it. I envy you both, although I'd rather go the opposite direction if my W will let me.
But I foresee good things for you with NC.
What's up with the job opportunity? Any word?
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread