Thanks Snodderly H never showed up yesterday to fix the dryer. I didn't call to find out why I just let it go. We'll see if he shows up today or if not I will call someone.
H's bil told me at work yesterday that at his daughter's christening, not only did h sleep through the whole party in a crowded room, but H sat in the back of the church and cried the whole time. The next day when the family was altogether at mil's (h's sister is in from out of town thus the family gathering), h was like a totally different person. Laughing, cooking, etc. BIL told me that he told sil the family needs to start to realize that this man is in a crisis. He may not hurt himself, but he could intentionally/unintentionally hurt someone else. BIL asked his wife to open the eyes of the family. I know this won't help H move along in the crisis but at least I know that I am not the only one who sees this bi-polar behavior.
So, no word from H since sunday night. We'll see if he pops in for the dryer. Don't know if MOW is still in the picture. Putting her out of my mind, but still wondering if she is lurking.